What’s so much better? I am.
Not sure if you recall my previous post about my withdrawal efforts, but I’m getting there. Pharmaceuticals are a bitch, and I’m staying away from the damn things from now on. I’ve been doing some reading on Paxil, and although I really appreciated the almost immediate relief it gave me, I wonder now if it was worth it (and wonder if my relief would’ve been effected just as well with a sugar pill. Who knows?).
If there’s one thing I should’ve learned by now, it’s that no matter how crappy things are, they will always get better. Always. Time will take care of it, usually. Not the inevitable counting of minutes, days, hours but some applied effort, some time to take a deep breath, some time to see the arc of the story unfold. Usually, things become clearer, right?
Breathing is the key for me these days. I mean, how many times have I counselled my daughter – take a deep breath, relax – while she was in the midst of a spasm? How many times have I seen that breath turn into instant and an almost magical soothing of those tortured muscles? How many times do I have to see that until I take my own good advice and take a few deep breaths myself?
I don’t doubt that there is better living through pharmaceuticals. Not at all. For me, though, I’m starting to have a sick feeling that the drugs are worse than the condition for which they were prescribed. For me, I think that maybe a more holistic approach will work. I don’t have a condition that has to be treated with medication; it got me through a bad time, and then it caused a bad time. This is a common story, and I’m lucky that I’m not dependent on these drugs in order to function in the world.
So, no. I’m not saying that breathing, or warm baths, or a walk around the block are solutions entirely. What I can say for myself, though, is that all three of those things seem to be helping me. They’re helping me a lot. One reason they’re helping is that I finally decided that I needed the help, if that makes any sense.
These days I’m not pretending to work at relaxing. I’m really putting in the time, and it’s making a difference.
Imagine that. Just… breathe.
And now for something completely different…. Mr. 761 and I are leaving for two weeks tramping around Bosnia-Herzegovina, Croatia, and Montenegro. We’ve planned some of it, but are leaving much of the Montenegro leg of the trip to our whims. It’s a little wee country so we’re going to wander about and stop where something grabs our fancy. So far, what we have planned is to fly into Sarajevo and spend several days there. We’ve arranged for a room in a pension right in the old town – not grand, but will serve our purposes. I plan on being out and exploring most of the day.
After a few days in Sarajevo, we’ll be travelling down the coast to Dubrovnik, Croatia. I’m
especially excited about this one. We can’t rent a car and drive through three different countries, really, so we’re going to bus/train it down to Dubrovnik.
After Dubrovnik, we’ll wander over to Montenegro (train?) and then rent a car and really explore. We’ll have about a week there and then Mr. 761 goes back to KAF from there, and I fly home to Canada and the breathtaking autumn in Nova Scotia.
Now, I have to admit that while breathing is helping, the planning and anticipation of this holiday is also helping. I can’t lie to you about that….
This will be the second trip that Mr. 761 and I have ever taken together (I do not count driving to Disney in Florida with the kids, as much um… fun as that was. Sorry kids!). We decided on these places because they are new to both of us – it’s so much fun to explore and discover these new places together, I think. Mr. 761 will keep up a running dialogue with regard to food and atheism and toilets; I will do my best to wax on about the history and beauty and food and romance. Between us, we’ll be able to give you all a fairly complete (if quirky) view of this part of the world…. stay tuned.
He will, alas, go back to this:
Doesn’t seem fair, does it?
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I’m excited for our trip, yes, I said OUR trip 😀 I will be following yours and Marks blog so I will be there in spirit. Not only will I get to travel to these beautiful countries with you guys, I will see the interesting food and salavate (or puke) after I pretend to smell my computer. I’m all packed and ready to go………..Take me away Calgon 😀
It’s always nice to have the pharmaceuticals when needed and then know the time when they are not needed and stop them. Add willpower and common sense to your list of attributes Joan.
Have a lovely time away exploring. I’m looking forward to hearing all your adventures. Get some rest/relax time in there also, you deserve it!
How exciting for the two of you! I will wait here at home, with excitement, to see that there are new blogs to read.
Have a safe and wonderful vacation, both of you.
And remember, just breathe…..:)